i have been with a girl for 18months, im 23 and she is 19. amonth ago she broke up with me, because she said i put her in a box. we also broke up beacause in a week she met someone, who is now pressuring her into sex….she has an addictive personality…and is having trouble with dieet pills. and selfesteem issues. she cries with me but goes back to him because she is dependant on him….socially, and transportation wise, he works with her….she has a problem with rejection….her father left when she was a baby…shes depressed but keeps on a mask when other people are near…how can i help her before she goes overboard with this guy and messes up her self? i want to help, not be her boyfriend right now, she has to find herself first. but is getting stuck in a cycle.i know she needs to make the choices. but she doesnt know the negative effect such things can have…how can i empower(by making it her decision, not mine)her to make the right decision for herself before it is too late?
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