i am going to spill my guts out now because i am so alone and need some advice badly! here is my problem: i am 25 years old and my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. we have had the most amazing relationship always as we started out as best friends for a year before we got together. about a week ago he was freaking out because we thought we were pregnant, although we had been trying for a year so i don’t know what he was freaking out about. we started to talk, and at 5am he confessed that he is: a) bored, b) wants to sleep with other women, c) not sure if he is still in love with me, d) wants more space and possibly a break. this talking went on for days. in the end he said he didn’t want to break up, just wanted space to go out alone etc. we work together and are business partners in our own firm so i know we spend alot of time together every minute of everyday. a week on and he is so weird. i was always such an empowered woman and now i am powerless. i have to agree to things i dont want because if i don’t i know he will leave me at the slightest sign of anything he doesn’t like. he is cold and depressed and all i get is one word replies. i run around trying to think of things we can do so he doesn’t get bored, like he is a child or something! i love him so much and he really is my best friend, but he has turned into a monster. i don’t know what to do. i cant get through to him. its like living with a room mate when last week i was livng with the man i loved who made me totally happy. But now everything is about him, like a spoilt child. He wants space and goes off alone to clubs and leaves me at home because he doesnt care that i live in Estonia in eastern eurpoe which is his country. i live here for him but i have no friends yet and i am not aloud to drive here until i take my licence again in this country. i am trapped and i cant get out. i feel like im going mad! i cant have my own life but he has decided to go off and live his. men or women any advice? and to top it all off i may be pregnant because: we have been trying for a year but he says his sperm count is so low he never thought it would actually work so now i may be pregnant and he tells me now that he doesnt want it. (im having it either way!) THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR ANY HELP! =)
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