Just like they say, it is only true love that will conquer all and last forever, unfortunately it is really hard to find.
But these days, it has become increasingly difficult to find the right man or woman to settle down with as compared to the past.
It looks like both genders are adding something new they want to find in a lover everyday, hence making it difficult for others to approach us, for they may feel they cannot match up.
This is why I am convinced some of us many wonder where good men and women disappeared to and if we are to have some nice catch, it will not come without hard work.
Days have changed, and men no longer have the prime responsibility of approaching a woman, never right from the societal point of view but today she is doing it.
I do not know how effective the dating sites are that match up two people from anywhere around the world but it could be worth trying and have good intentions.
I have come across some sites that are calling themselves Christian dating sites and from others testimonies who succeeded, one can get one more reason to try out.
If it is not online, you can tell a man what you feel and wait for whatever will be born out of it, for as a woman, you must learn to be assertive.
Nowadays, it is not many women who are positive about marriages, for they are already swayed by notions that it is complex, or men are nothing but cheats and so on.
A woman who really needs a man she can spend the rest of her life with must find a way of letting out all this negativity out of her heart and mind.
If not, she is allowed to stop searching and sink in her loneliness forever. It would be advisable to learn how to deal with a lonely life if you are not prepared to view married life differently.
I do not know the value you put to yourself as a woman but, whether it is too much or little, it is not good to dismiss the people you meet too fast because of the way they are dressed up or are physically.
We shun people who could otherwise be the husbands we are desperately looking for because of setting our bar of suitors too high for others to cope with.
The manner in which people dress was insignificant in matters of marriage and relationships in the past but not today.
I do not know which is the right style for you as a woman, but they say that men do not look for wives in provocative dressing code but rather someone to have fun with.
There is nothing wrong with being dressed up fashionably and attractively as long as it appears decent to you and others.
Just get a bit civilized in your wardrobe and collect those beauty flaws and you will be surprised where the big numbers of interested men suddenly came from.
Is there a better way of living this life as a woman than having your own money, career or at least a successful business?
As women, we do not have to borrow all the times, we have amazing talents that can be exploited to our advantage too and become independent.
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The Color Purple: Help me narrow my focus?
Posted by admin in January 10th 2012
I’m writing a literary analysis of “The Color Purple” for my class “Philosophy of Woman”. Here are the themes I’d like to focus on, but I’m having trouble deciding which way to go. If you’d like to offer your opinion and why, I’d be much obliged!
1. Celie redefining gender roles for herself after she finds her voice
2. Character analysis of Shug Avery (specifically how she defies the expectations of her as a black female)
3. How positive female relationships can empower women to find strength within themselves and each other, so they can have identities not assigned to them by men.
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How to Find Anyone’s Address by Entering Their Phone Number
Posted by admin in December 28th 2011
You can find anyone’s address just by using there phone numbers so fast and easily. All you need is a reverse phone lookup to help you do it. You can find a reverse phone number lookup online or by conducting a search by using your favorite search engine or directory.
Reverse phone lookup, is all you will need to give a shot and find the address. Complete the digit phone number of the person. If after the search for the phone number, no address is found, it could be as a result of different factors including such as incorrect number entered. This could imply that you missed a number or two or you entered it wrongly.
You may key in the number correctly, but the number you may be looking for could be incorrect. You may be correctly looking up the number you have written down, but you could have initially recorded the number wrong. Check again the source where you got the number.
If the number you are entering is a cell phone number, an address can be provided but not for free. Most free address data is only offered for listed landline numbers. If you would wish to find out the address and it is suitable for you to pay a fee. The fee can be per search.
Finding addresses by use of phone number is very common. If you are receiving unidentified phone calls or if you need to find someone address by using modern technology getting the address of any phone number is fast and easy. All that you require is the phone number, with the area code included and in only a few minutes you will get the address.
Entering the correct area code is in to the search model very important. If you have no idea where the telephone number is from, you can use a area decoder or use the local telephone directory. You can also visit the local post office for more information on the same. Better still you can enter the phone number on a reverse phone lookup directory and you will not only get the address but also the name and more information on the caller.
Finding addresses by phone number is fast and easily done by a reverse phone lookup service. Just by entering the phone number, you will get revelation on the person’s information and the service provider. Your will get information according to what you choose from the phone lookup
Reverse phone lookup service is very useful as you will soon discover. You will be shocked at how much information you can get from these services. You can some look up your friends, and workmates. You can remove your own private information from the records.
In most cases the area code of the phone number gives you clues of the position where the person must be located to narrow down the search, still it is difficult to find the precise address without using a powerful reverse phone look up directory.
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How We Can Empower Our Daughters to Be Successful
Posted by admin in December 26th 2011
I recently read a book entitled “Stepping Out of Line: Lessons for Women Who Want It Their Way… In Life, In Love, and At Work” by Nell Merlino. Nell Merlino founded the website Make Mine a Million Dollar Business. She encourages female entrepreneurs to think big and achieve whatever goals they set for themselves.
Obviously, one of Merlino’s goals is to help empower young girls to think big as well. In addition to all of her other achievements, she is also the founder of Take Our Daughters to Work Day. She is an advocate for both women and girls to achieve their dreams.
One of the ideas that Nell Merino establishes in her book is that it is important for women to not just wait until the world changes. Women need to “jump in” and actively start making changes themselves. Many women wait for someone else, be it their husband, friend boss etc to make changes that will allow women to pursue their passions. The trick is to follow your passion right now.
Even though many barriers have been broken when it comes to women’s rights, women still are limited by their own thoughts as well as society’s status quo for what can be accomplished. Limitations as to what we can achieve are often set in our minds way back in childhood. Often we spend our entire lives trying to get rid of limiting beliefs. This fact holds true for both men and women.
Woman have overcome some great hurdles, voting, running for office, owning companies and making millions. It is not only a man’s world anymore. It is important for our girls in today’s society to not just realize that they can do what they want with their lives, but also to believe in their dreams.
It is important to teach our young girls that they can create their own financial future. If they want to work as a high-powered executive it is possible and if they want to work at home and be an entrepreneur this is also possible. Even if girls are younger, they still might appreciate talking to their moms about how it is possible to be your own boss and work for yourself.
Try starting a simple conversation on the subject with your daughter. You may be amazed at all the creative and inspiring ideas she has. Open conversation and shared thoughts on this subject will lead to her ultimate empowerment.
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Stopping Workplace Violence Before It Starts
Posted by admin in December 18th 2011
Workplace rage accounts for the term, “Going postal”. This term is a reference to the 1980′s slayings of postal workers by current or former employees who acted in moments of intense rage. During a ten-year period 40 individuals were murdered in workplace violence.
In terms of present conditions there remains the threat of violence in the workplace. This may not result in murder, but it can cause intimidation and other forms of workplace abuse.
The Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) have never established violence standards for the workplace. That does not, however, preclude the establishment of safety precautions that provide an atmosphere free of exposure to circumstances that may result in physical harm or even death. OSHA recognizes violence as a ‘recognized hazard’ and employers can be cited for failing to provide their staff with a safe environment – even from each other.
Workplace Training
One viable way to stem the tide of violence in your workplace is to initiate training within your company. The idea is to recognize and curtail potential violence before it takes place. That being the case, training needs to occur in areas such as interview techniques that may alert your human resources department to potential issues with a prospective employee. Training can also assist managers in identifying trouble spots that may result in workplace violence. Thirdly, training needs to take place among employees to help them understand a better way to manage their frustration within the workplace. Warriors 4 Safety offers OSHA accepted online training for the prevention of workplace violence.
Areas of Concern
When interviewing a potential employee some of the red flags you may be looking for include previous jobs that may have been left off the resume, how they handled previous stress-filled situations within a work environment, how they deal with difficult co-workers, what situations make them angry, have they ever been angry with a supervisor and how they feel when they are intimidated.
These are just a few of the things you should attempt to uncover in the interview process. They can help you identify a potential violent tendency and may help in identifying areas of additional training for your staff.
Your management team needs to be equipped to identify workplace ‘red flags’ and then instructed to deal with small problems quickly. Often workplace violence is a result of ‘compound interest’. The individual who ultimately expresses violence will have an issue of origin that was never resolved. That issue resulted in additional real or perceived problems that often results in the belief that violence is a viable tool that can be used to manage the internal conflict or turmoil they experience. When it gets to this point it may be too late to meaningfully engage the employee. They may even feel that any intervention from you would simply be condescending.
The Origin of Violence
You should also understand that some workplace violence begins with circumstances outside the workplace. An employee could crack under the pressures of personal finance or situations that may be happening at home. The workplace can become the object of their frustration and wrath.
Supervisors can learn to spot those who may be considering violence as a remedy to their personal or workplace problems through a radical change in personal behavior, becoming visibly upset with routine supervisor feedback, angrily engaging fellow employees who may actually be conciliatory, being compulsive about their work and a strong interest in weaponry. If you would like the support network to help discuss safety supervision visit the Warriors 4 Safety- Safety Forum.
Ultimate Responsibility
The role of safety training cannot be minimized. It is strongly inferred that OSHA considers it a citable offense to fail to intervene in circumstances of potential workplace violence. Your team deserves a safe workplace and you have the duty to provide that environment. If you are new to the safety profession please visit Warriors4Safety.com for training & support.
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Finding, Locating and Stimulating The G Spot
Posted by admin in December 14th 2011
The g-spot is a bean shaped group of nerves tissues located halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The size and position of the g-spot differs from women to women, but it is usually about the size of a quarter, and lies 2-3 inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone. Women sometimes cannot find their own g-spot. Here are some tips to help all women.
Technique for Finding the G-Spot
Right ladies make sure you are relaxed and comfortable and plenty of time set aside to give your time to explore and experiment.
1. Ladies lay down, knees bent and feet flat on the bed with a small pillow under your buttocks.
2. Then insert your lubricated fingers into your vagina towards your navel about 2 inches inside your vagina.
3. Press with either one or two fingers against the front wall of your vagina applying a little more pressure than usual, as the g-spot is surrounded with tissue and is deep in the vaginal wall.
4. Move your fingers from side to side until you start to feel when that you are hitting the right spot. It should feel ridged unlike the rest of the vagina that is smooth. It will then as a result through stimulation swell and firm like the erectile tissue in a penis.
How to Self-Pleasure Yourself to a G-Spot Orgasm
First of all please empty your bladder before self-love as women do get a feeling to urinate when the g-spot is first stimulated as we recorded earlier.
Girls to directly stimulate the g-spot lay on your back with your feet flat on the floor with your legs apart. Using the thumb of one hand start stimulating the clitoris, then girls slowly insert two finger as far as possible into the vagina and rub against the bottom of the vaginal opening until, pressuring upward with the tips of your fingers from side to side exerting pressure upwards. If the fingers are more sharply upwards your can rock forwards and back in a circular motion with consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vagina walls.
To increase the pleasure thrust your hand in and out simulating penis intercourse then exert pressure upwards when withdrawing so that the g-spot is involved. If you want to really get yourself all hot a bothered remember to stimulate the clitoris as well or use the other hand to touch other erotic zones such as the nipples.
What to Remember When Stimulating the G-Spot
1.Women need firm pressure to the front of the vagina, quick rhythm and friction to have g-spot orgasms.
2. Women may ejaculate a small amount of a white clear fluid when she has a g-spot orgasm.
3. Please be careful girls and short nail are recommended.
4. It may help to use a water based lubricant and wash you hands thoroughly with hot soapy water afterwards.
G-Spot Tips
Variety is the spice of life so experiment with using smooth, round beads placed in the fingertips of some latex gloves (use a water based lubricant because oil based lubes break down latex gloves) to provide more intense sensations when the hand is inserted into the vagina.
Another extra tip that isn’t do to with self-pleasure but I though I would like to add is to say rear-entry/doggy position is the best during intercourse to stimulate the g-spot as the penis presses against the front wall of the vagina, particularly with the man on the top and a pillow beneath the hips.
The G-Spot Conclusion
The g-spot really does exist and with only a little patience and experimentation any girl can soon understand the power and excitement that g-spot stimulation can accomplish. There are techniques that involve using a dildo to simulate the penis in vaginal intercourse that really can be fun when self-pleasuring concentrating on the g-spot. Using the dildo instead of your fingers as in the methods explained above.
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How Powerful Do You Want to Be
Posted by admin in December 10th 2011
Be a Divine Being
As I grow a deeper connection to Source, acknowledging this entity many know as God, I grow to accept that there is a natural evolution taking place and the only thing that makes what IS right or wrong is our judgment. Yet, the natural laws are governing the Universe, the Solar System, the Earth, the animals of the earth, and the people of the earth. As with the natural laws, there is an ebb and flow for everything and the pendulum continues to swing from an era of darkness to an era of light, over and over again. As my acceptance and understanding of this fundamental Truth, I can then step more fully into Faith and exercise the Divine gift to co-create with Source.
We are the only species on this planet that has been given this god-like ability. There is so much more that can be said to further explain the implications this has for so much of what we experience and the latent potential lying dormant in so many people around the world. As we remember more fully and completely who we are, a Divine Being – we are spirit and are of Spirit – then we discover the positive perspective through our acceptance that enables us to have an even greater impact on the world around us as our light shines brightly.
There is nothing to fear but fear itself. Be the change you want to see. Ask not what your country can do for you, instead ask what you can do for your country. And of course, we all know Nelson Mandela’s famous speech: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us, it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
The ripple will be felt, seeds will be planted, God will co-create and see it through via the attention and intention you set, and the light will erase the shadows as the light spreads.
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