President Obama is not listening to the truth about the VAWA

Posted by admin in December 28th 2012

President Obama is obviously shielded at the fact the Violence Against Women Act is failing. Victims are not getting the services they need, the very coalitions that are funded by the Violence Against Women Act are only tools for training and printing informative pamphlets to be handed out during crisis. Lynn Rosenthal proved that when she told a victim, “she didn’t have the capacity to help her and would “pass” it on to the powers that be.”

Survivors In Action, a national interactive victims of violence non-profit, receives countless emails daily on how organizations claiming to provide services are failing. Why won’t the White House listen? Health Insurance reform is needed, when these women are sent to the hospital after being beaten, children thrown out of windows by abusers are going to need hospital care. However, what happens when these women and children are sent home? Where are they going to go? What services are they really going to get? A printed pamphlet?

President Obama’s proclamation:

THE WHITE HOUSE

Office of the Press Secretary

For Immediate Release October 1, 2009

NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH, 2009

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BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA A PROCLAMATION

Domestic violence touches the lives of Americans of all ages, leaving a devastating impact on women, men, and children of every background and circumstance. A family’s home becomes a place of fear, hopelessness, and desperation when a woman is battered by her partner, a child witnesses the abuse of a loved one, or a senior is victimized by family members.

Since the 1994 passage of the landmark Violence Against Women Act, championed by

then Senator Joe Biden, our Nation has strengthened its response to this crime and increased services for victims. Still, far too many women and families in this country and around the world are affected by domestic violence. During National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we recommit ourselves to ending violence within our homes, our communities, and our country.

To effectively respond to domestic violence, we must provide assistance and support that meets the immediate needs of victims. Facing social isolation, victims can find it difficult to protect themselves and their children. They require safe shelter and housing, medical care, access to justice, culturally specific services, and economic opportunity. The Family Violence Prevention and Services Act supports emergency shelters, crisis intervention programs, and community education about domestic violence.

In the best of economic times, victims worry about finding a job and housing, and providing for their children; these problems only intensify during periods of financial stress. That is why the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act provides $325 million for the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) and the Victims of Crime Act (VOCA). This funding will supplement the Federal VAWA and VOCA dollars that flow to communities every year, and enable States, local governments, tribes, and victim service providers to retain and hire personnel that can serve victims and hold offenders accountable. These funds will also bring relief to victims seeking a safe place to live for themselves and their

children.

Victims of violence often suffer in silence, not knowing where to turn, with little or no guidance and support. Sadly, this tragedy does not just affect adults. Even when children are not directly injured by violence, exposure to violence in the home can contribute to behavioral, social, and emotional problems. High school students who report having experienced physical violence in a dating relationship are more likely to use drugs and alcohol, are at greater risk of suicide, and may carry patterns of abuse into future relationships. Our efforts to address domestic violence must include these young victims.

During this month, we rededicate ourselves to breaking the cycle of violence. By providing young people with education about healthy relationships, and by changing attitudes that support violence, we recognize that domestic violence can be prevented. We must build the capacity of our Nation’s victim

service providers to reach and serve those in need. We urge community leaders to raise awareness and bring attention to this quiet crisis. And across America, we encourage victims and their families to call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE. Together, we must ensure that, in America, no victim of domestic violence ever struggles alone.

NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim October 2009, as National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. I ask all Americans to do their part to

end domestic violence in this country by supporting their communities’ efforts to assist victims in finding the help and healing they need.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this first day of October, in the year of our Lord two thousand nine, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-fourth.

BARACK OBAMA

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Cholesterol Drugs And Natural Alternatives

Posted by admin in December 23rd 2012

For several years people have been taking cholesterol drugs as a
means to lower high cholesterol levels. The most frequently prescribed class of cholesterol drugs are the statins, also known as lipid lowering medications.However they are known to have some quite serious side effects, such as causing liver function abnormalities. Statins currently available on the US market include :Statins currently available on the U.S. market include, Lipitor (atorvastatin) made by Pfizer, Zocor (simvastatin) made by Merck, Pravachol (pravastatin) made by Bristol-Myers Squibb, Lescol (fluvastatin) made by Novartis, Mevacor (lovastatin) made by Merck, and Crestor (rosuvastatin) made by AstraZeneca.

The latest cholesterol drugs that are soon to come on the market, are the CETP inhibitors. These new drugs have a different action as based on the latest scientific discoveries, it is now known that not all cholesterol is unhealthy. There are several types of cholesterol, including LDL bad cholesterol and HDL good cholesterol. The CETP Inhibitors work to also raise the hdl cholesterollevels which have been proven in themselves to aid in lowering levels of the ldl cholesterol.

There are however a large number of alternative cholesterol lowering drugs. Natural alternatives that do not pose such a risk, although of course any medication you take you should always check with your doctor first. You can lower cholesterol naturally by taking herbal remedies such as Guggul, Pantethine, Curcumin, Policosanol, and Beta-Sitosterol .These supplements
are easily available and low cost compared to prescribed drugs.
Of course there are also many lifestyle changes that can be made to lower your cholesterol levels naturally. Regular exercise and eating a diet for lowering cholesterol can also reduce your risk of developing heart disease. As they say, prevention is better than cure.
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WOMENS’ RIGHTS IN WORLD PERSPECTIVE

Posted by admin in December 20th 2012

WOMENS’ RIGHTS IN WORLD PERSPECTIVE

Women’s rights around the world are an important indicator of understanding global well-being. Many may think that women’s rights are only an issue in countries where religion is law, such as many Muslim countries. Or even worse, some may think this is no longer an issue at all.

BACKGROUND

The importance of the question of violence against women was emphasized over the last decade through the holding of several expert group meetings sponsored by the United Nations to draw attention to the extent and severity of the problem.

In September 1992, the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women established a special Working Group and gave it a mandate to draw up a draft declaration on violence against women.

The following year, the United Nations Commission for Human Rights, in resolution 1993/46 of 3 March condemned all forms of violence and violations of human rights directed specifically against women.

The World Conference on Human Rights, held in Vienna in June 1993, laid extensive groundwork for eliminating violence against women. In the Vienna Declaration and Programme of Action, Governments declared that the United Nations system and Member States should work towards the elimination of violence against women in public and private life; of all forms of sexual harassment, exploitation and trafficking in women; of gender bias in the administration of justice; and of any conflicts arising between the rights of women and the harmful effects of certain traditional or customary practices, cultural prejudices and religious extremism.

The document also declared that “violations of the human rights of women in situations of armed conflicts are violations of the fundamental principles of international human rights and humanitarian law”, and that all violations of this kind — including murder, systematic rape, sexual slavery and forced pregnancy — “require a particularly effective response”.

The issue of the advancement of women’s rights has concerned the United Nations since the Organization’s founding. Yet the alarming global dimensions of female-targeted violence were not explicitly acknowledged by the international community until December 1993, when the United Nations General Assembly adopted the Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women.

Until that point, most Governments tended to regard violence against women largely as a private matter between individuals, and not as a pervasive human rights problem requiring State intervention.

In view of the alarming growth in the number of cases of violence against women throughout the world, the Commission on Human Rights adopted resolution 1994/45 of 4 March 1994, in which it decided to appoint the Special Rapporteur on violence against women, including its causes and consequences.

As a result of these steps, the problem of violence against women has been drawing increasing political attention.

WHAT IS GENDER BASED VIOLENCE

The Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women is the first international human rights instrument to exclusively and explicitly address the issue of violence against women. It affirms that the phenomenon violates, impairs or nullifies women’s human rights and their exercise of fundamental freedoms.

The Declaration provides a definition of gender-based abuse, calling it “any act of gender-based violence that results in, or is likely to result in, physical, sexual or psychological harm or suffering to women, including threats of such acts, coercion or arbitrary deprivation of liberty, whether occurring in public or in private life”.

The definition is amplified in article 2 of the Declaration, which identifies three areas in which violence commonly takes place:

Physical, sexual and psychological violence that occurs in the family, including battering; sexual abuse of female children in the household; dowry-related violence; marital rape; female genital mutilation and other traditional practices harmful to women; non-spousal violence; and violence related to exploitation; Physical, sexual and psychological violence that occurs within the general community, including rape; sexual abuse; sexual harassment and intimidation at work, in educational institutions and elsewhere; trafficking in women; and forced prostitution; Physical, sexual and psychological violence perpetrated or condoned by the State, wherever it occurs.

SAFE GUARDS FOR WOMEN

In recent years some countries have taken significant steps towards improving laws relating to violence against women. For example:

In July 1991, Mexico revised its rape law in several important ways. A provision was eliminated that allowed a man who rapes a minor to avoid prosecution if he agrees to marry her. Now judges are required to hand down a decision regarding access to an abortion within five working days. On 9 June 1994, the Organization of American States adopted the Inter-American Convention to Prevent, Punish and Eradicate Violence against Women (also called Convention of Belém do Parà), a new international instrument that recognizes all gender-based violence as an abuse of human rights. This Convention provides an individual right of petition and a right for non-governmental organizations to lodge complaints with the Inter-American Commission of Human Rights. In Australia, a National Committee on Violence against Women was established to coordinate the development of policy, legislation and law enforcement at the national level as well as community education on violence against women. In 1991, the Government of Canada announced a new four-year Family Violence Initiative intended to mobilize community action, strengthen Canada’s legal framework, establish services on Indian reserves and in Inuit communities, develop resources to help victims and stop offenders, and provide housing for abused women and children. In Turkey, a Ministry of State for Women was established whose main goals are, among others, to promote women’s rights and strengthen their role in economic, social, political and cultural life. Legal measures are being adopted towards the elimination of violence against women. The establishment of special courts to deal with violence is envisaged. Psychological treatment for abused women is also planned, along with the establishment of women’s shelters around the country. Specially trained female police officers could provide assistance to victims of violence. In Burkina Faso, a strong advertising campaign by the Government as well as television and radio programmes on the unhealthy practice of genital mutilation were launched to educate and raise public awareness about the dangerous consequences of such an “operation”. A National Anti-Excision Committee was established in 1990 by the present head of State. Today, the practice of genital mutilation has been eliminated in some villages of Burkina Faso. In others, there has been an incredible drop in the number of girls excised: only 10 per cent of the girls are excised compared to 100 per cent 10 years ago. Some countries have introduced police units specially trained for dealing with spousal assault. In Brazil, specific police stations have been designated to deal with women’s issues, including domestic violence. These police stations are staffed entirely by women.

Professor of anthropology, Richard Robbins also notes that

At the same time that women produce 75 to 90 percent of food crops in the world, they are responsible for the running of households. According to the United Nations, in no country in the world do men come anywhere close to women in the amount of time spent in housework. Furthermore, despite the efforts of feminist movements, women in the core [wealthiest, Western countries] still suffer disproportionately, leading to what sociologist refers to as the “feminization of poverty,” where two out of every three poor adults are women. The informal slogan of the Decade of Women became “Women do two-thirds of the world’s work, receive 10 percent of the world’s income and own 1 percent of the means of production.”

CONVENTION ON THE ELIMINATION OF ALL FORMS OF DISCRIMINATION AGAINST WOMEN

Adopted and opened for signature, ratification and accession by General Assembly resolution 34/180 of 18 December 1979

Entered into force: 3 September 1981, in accordance with article 27 (1)

The States Parties to the present Convention,

Noting that the Charter of the United Nations reaffirms faith in fundamental human rights, in the dignity and worth of the human person and in the equal rights of men and women,

Noting that the Universal Declaration of Human Rights affirms the principle of the inadmissibility of discrimination and proclaims that all human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights and that everyone is entitled to all the rights and freedoms set forth therein, without distinction of any kind, including distinction based on sex,

Noting that the States Parties to the International Covenants on Human Rights have the obligation to ensure the equal rights of men and women to enjoy all economic, social, cultural, civil and political rights,

Considering the international conventions concluded under the auspices of the United Nations and the specialized agencies promoting equality of rights of men and women,

Noting also the resolutions, declarations and recommendations adopted by the United Nations and the specialized agencies promoting equality of rights of men and women,

Concerned, however, that despite these various instruments, extensive discrimination against women continues to exist,

Recalling that discrimination against women violates the principles of equality of rights and respect for human dignity, is an obstacle to the participation of women, on equal terms with men, in the political, social, economic and cultural life of their countries, hampers the growth of the prosperity of society and the family and makes more difficult the full development of the potentialities of women in the service of their countries and of humanity,

Concerned that in situations of poverty women have the least access to food, health, education, training and opportunities for employment and other needs,

Convinced that the establishment of the new international economic order based on equity and justice will contribute significantly towards the promotion of equality between men and women,

Emphasizing that the eradication of apartheid, all forms of racism, racial discrimination, colonialism, neocolonialism, aggression, foreign occupation and domination and interference in the internal affairs of States is essential to the full enjoyment of the rights of men and women,

Affirming that the strengthening of international peace and security, the relaxation of international tension, mutual cooperation among all States irrespective of their social and economic systems, general and complete disarmament, in particular nuclear disarmament under strict and effective international control, the affirmation of the principles of justice, equality and mutual benefit in relations among countries and the realization of the right of peoples under alien and colonial domination and foreign occupation to self determination and independence, as well as respect for national sovereignty and territorial integrity, will promote social progress and development and as a consequence will contribute to the attainment of full equality between men and women,

Convinced that the full and complete development of a country, the welfare of the world and the cause of peace require the maximum participation of women on equal terms with men in all fields,

Bearing in mind the great contribution of women to the welfare of the family and to the development of society, so far not fully recognized, the social significance of maternity and the role of both parents in the family and in the upbringing of children, and aware that the role of women in procreation should not be a basis for discrimination but that the upbringing of children requires a sharing of responsibility between men and women and society as a whole,

Aware that a change in the traditional role of men as well as the role of women in society and in the family is needed to achieve full equality between men and women,

Determined to implement the principles set forth in the Declaration on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women and, for that purpose, to adopt the measures required for the elimination of such discrimination in all its forms and manifestations,

CONCLUSION-

Violence against women is an obstacle to the achievementOf equality, development and peace, as recognized in the NairobiForward-looking Strategies for the Advancement of Women, in which a set ofMeasures to combat violence against women was recommended, and to the fullImplementation of the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms ofDiscrimination against Women. The Law affirming, that violence against women constitutes a violation of theRights and fundamental freedoms of women and impairs or nullifies theirEnjoyment of those rights and freedoms, and concerned about the long-standingFailure to protect and promote those rights and freedoms in the case ofViolence against women. REFERENCE 1. UN CHARTER OF HUMAN RIGHTS 2. UN CONVENTION REPORTS NANDINI CHAKRABORTY.LECTURER OF JOURNALISM& MASS COMMUNICATION.KOLKATA, W.B.

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The Domestic Violence Cycle – 3 Ways the Abuser Manipulates

Posted by admin in December 14th 2012

Early this year talk show host Oprah Winfrey featured an episode on the domestic violence cycle. She interviewed one gentleman who told her what it was like when he was physically assaulting his wife, “It made me feel invincible.”

The first word that comes to mind is frightening. The fact that hurting the one he allegedly loves made him feel invincible is a mind-boggling concept. But so it goes with many abusive spouses. The whole relationship is about power and control. It not only manifests itself with physical and verbal abuse but it feeds into one of the central components of this type of relationship. Manipulation.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention calculates that over five million people each year become victims of domestic violence. Out of those over four million are women. Yet in spite of that an overwhelming number of the victims refuse to leave their abuser. It seems obvious that they should but they don’t.

All kinds of theories are floated about as to the reason the domestic violence cycle continues. Unfortunately many tend to lay the burden on the victim. Specifically what they should or shouldn’t do. Too often what the abuser is doing to make sure the victim stays exactly where they are goes unaddressed.

1. The Plea

They are so sorry that they pushed the victim down the stairs or beat them until they loss consciousness. They promise on a stack of bibles that they will never ever do it again and beg for forgiveness. And then they may add the extra touches. Tears, intense remorse and they would feel so bad if the victim left them that they might commit suicide.

No way someone would fall for that especially if it happened previously, right? Wrong. The victim is in the middle of a metal and emotional cyclone. Up is down, bad is good and the only thing that makes sense to them is the fact they really do love the person who is asking to be forgiven. So over and over again regardless of how many times it happens they always wind up accepting the plea.

2. The Buttons

It is along the lines of the plea except it does not necessarily include tears or remorse. It does however contain the emotional triggers that can send the victim back on that roller coaster (not like they ever got off of it) and keep control; firmly in the hands of the abuser.

A quiet word or a gentle touch can do the trick. Take that romantic vacation that the victim has always wanted. Anything will do as long as it keeps pulling on those emotional strings. In a way it’s like saying forget all the bad stuff that happened before and just concentrate on the love being shown at this very moment.

3. The Harm

This is unadulterated manipulation on full display. When the victim decides they have had enough of this insanity and attempt to leave the relationship, their risk factor increases about 75%.

The abuser does not sugarcoat it. They tell the victim point blank what will happen to them. They also paint a frightening and constant picture letting them know there is no way out except feet first. After a steady diet of abuse you can believe this one gets the victim’s complete attention.

There are all kinds of tricks but the end goal to the domestic violence cycle remains the same. Keep the victim exactly where they are and exercise complete and total control of the relationship. As the statistics show, it works.

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Tantra Healing – How to Heal Your Sensuality

Posted by admin in November 27th 2012

How long have you waited to love you? Loving yourself is essential in creating the relationships of your dreams. For in loving you, you enable yourself to fully receive love from your partner.

How DO you begin to love yourself? Start by being true to you. This means that you begin to allow yourself to feel. What you can feel you can heal. Allow yourself to go there…into that place of feeling your pain. What you repress, you eventually will feel as pain somewhere in your body, so you may as well let yourself feel it now.

When you allow yourself to feel, you enable emotions of past to come up and out of your body. Past hurts that keep you tied down to your past. How can you move forward in your relationship if you cannot let go of the pain of the past? Moving forward allows you to see things as they are… clearly.

The mind often gets caught up in the stories of the past. The story is all about WHY you were hurt, WHO did this to you, etc. The mind will keep you trapped forever in the stories it has created – even if they ARE true. This is why it is so important to simply feel your emotions without being attached to the ‘why’ you are feeling them.

Emotions have a direct affect on your physical body. Any emotion that has been suppressed in any way; will shut you down on some level of being. You may feel repressed emotion as a pain in your body, or it may manifest as a problem in your sexuality.

Premature ejaculation and impotence problems are common effects of suppressed emotion. Think of a lifetime of not letting yourself feel. Sometimes as a young person you are judged for having sexual needs, so you hide them, you rush yourself – you do not allow yourself to truly feel.

Your sexuality becomes something you are ashamed of, instead of embracing the beauty of it. Allowing yourself to feel opens up a whole new world for you. You begin to feel alive within your skin. Sexual intimacy becomes something you cherish instead of something you avoid.

Knowing you on a deeply intimate level is a beautiful thing. Cherish yourself, and know that you are worth your investment in time and energy.
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Stop Bullying- 10 Key Bullying Myths Exposed

Posted by admin in November 21st 2012

Far too long have bully victims and society in general made misinformed decisions that were based on the many bullying myths, lies, and half-truths related to this serious social problem. Until we understand and expose these myths as the lies and half-truths that they really are, we will continue to support and empower the bully and a bully culture in our society.

10 Key Bullying Myths Exposed

Myth #1: Bullying is just a normal part of the growing up experience!

Are you kidding me! How can living in constant fear of psychological abuse and physical attacks be a normal part of growing up? Bullying is not “normal” or acceptable social behavior and should never be ignored or tolerated under any circumstances!

Myth #2: Asking for help or simply telling someone will make the problem even worse!

As difficult as asking for help may seem to do at the time, research has shown that bullying will only stop when caring adults (parents, relatives, friends) or adults in authority (teachers, principals, police) and peers (classmates) get involved.

Myth #3: Don’t be a coward. You need to stand up to the bully and hit them back!

Hmmm, I have to wonder how many of us, especially with bullied boys, are guilty of this one! Given the fact that in most situations the bully is bigger and stronger, or has a gang with him/her, there is a big risk that fighting back will make things even worse and may lead to the serious injury of the bullied person. Research has shown that learning to live with bullying does NOT make children tougher. Instead it may cause low self-esteem and a lack of self-worth in the bullied child.

Myth #4: Bullying only happens at school, so let the education system deal with it!

News flash! Bullying does not occur only in the school setting. This kind of harassment is found almost everywhere people, both children and adults, gather to learn, play, or work.

Myth #5: Some people are just born to bully others! Just the way it is!

A rather silly argument when you stop to think about it. How can that sweet new born baby lying in its crib be labelled as a future bully? Bullying is a behavior that is learned through life experience and observations. Therefore this behavior can be changed or unlearned.

Myth #6: Some people deserve to be bullied!

It amazes me that in this day and age there are people, both kids and adults, that really believe this! Granted we all have met people who for a variety of reasons may “rub us the wrong way”, still they do not deserve to be verbally or physically harmed in any manner.

Myth #7: Words will never hurt you!

Ever heard of emotional scars? Yes, words alone don’t lead to bruises or broken bones that heal in time. Emotional scars may last a lifetime, thereby affecting the targeted person for years and years after the bullying incidences. This makes verbal bullying more dangerous to some victims than physical abuse.

Myth #8: It was only teasing!

This simple statement may be one of the most used methods by bullies to justify their actions. Teasing with the intent to do harm or hurt the other party is considered bullying! This is a far different type of teasing than “good natured” teasing between friends and peers, when all is being done in fun, and both parties realize this.

Myth #9: Bullying is just a form of Conflict!

Wrong! Bullying is about the misuse of power that one person has over another and is generally repeated over time. Conflict is a disagreement or even a fight between individual or groups that is not based on an imbalance of power between the parties involved. Solving conflicts may involve each party meeting halfway and accepting some of the blame for the incident and working things out to solve the problem. In bullying, there is no “shared blame”, between the bully and the target. Bullying is wrong, and no one deserves this treatment!

Myth #10: Most people who observe bullying don’t want try and stop it!

Great news! There is plenty of research to support the fact that most people do not condone bullying and would try to stop it. The problem is that the average person lacks the knowledge and strategies needed to defuse a bullying situation. In some cases this lack of training may result in ignoring the bullying incident due to not knowing what to do, or a fear that doing or saying the wrong things could turn the bully or bullies on him/her. This is where anti-bullying training programs in the schools for children and in the workplace for adults are becoming more and more essential.

There is no reason why, as a parent or a bully victim, you should not empower yourself to protect your child or yourself against bullying myths.

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What makes a Valid Dog Bite Compensation Claim?

Posted by admin in November 20th 2012

Of all the personal injury compensation claims, claims for injuries caused by animals are the most successful, especially if the animal is domesticated and has an owner. Claims for dog bites are the most common and the victims are almost always compensated, without really having to prove much. This is due to the Animal Act, 1971, which recognizes that if biting or attacking in any form is part of an animal’s normal behavior, an individual who decides to own an animal, assumes responsibility for this ‘normal’ behavior of the animal and is liable to compensate anyone who is a victim of this behavior. Thus, in most cases, people bitten or attacked by dogs receive compensation. The only time this doesn’t happen is when the animal is provoked into attacking or biting.

Usually claims for animal injuries hardly need police or court intervention. The owner is automatically liable to compensate. However, to some extent, investigation is required, in order to ascertain whether the attacking was well within the normal behavioral traits of the animal. Thus, you and the owner may have to answer questions about how the incident occurred, if there were any witnesses, what is the animal’s temperament, etc. A problem can also occur if the owner of the animal is not known or if the animal is wild – in these cases, getting compensation can be quite difficult. Animal owners are aware of the fact that if their dog or horse injures another person while behaving normally, they are liable to pay compensation. Thus, they usually take insurance for such accidents.

An important aspect to understand is ‘normal behavior’. This is the animal’s natural temperament. For example, a Doberman who’s kept for guarding the house may bark and even bite an unknown individual who walks in through the gate. This is no surprise – this is what the dog was trained for. Thus, the owner is liable to compensate. It’s the law’s way of telling owners – “You knew your dog was fierce, and yet you want to have him, so please pay for any suffering he may cause to someone else.” On the other hand, Retrievers are known to be good natured and friendly. So, if a retriever attacks a skid, one cannot leave out the possibility that the kid was up to some mischief and could have provoked the dog in to attacking. Thus, the dog didn’t attack according to his general temperament. In this case, the owner is not liable to pay.

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Invite More Romance Into Your Bedroom With the Right Interior Design

Posted by admin in November 17th 2012

To most couples, the bedroom is an intimate space they share and spend a lot of time together in. To make your bedroom a place where you and your partner can look forward to retreating into, consider new ways to invite an element of romance into your bedroom decor. Invest in the help of a Seattle interior designer to help you achieve the best look to suit your and your partner’s tastes and preferences. Here are some great ideas to inspire you:

1. Obliterate clutter

Clutter and mess can be one of the biggest killers of romance. It’s hard to relax in a messy space and having various objects lying around can be a major distraction. First, spend time cleaning out your closets for unwanted items you have amassed over time. Then speak to your interior designer about the best ways to maximize your space. You’ll want your belongings to be kept well organized and hidden out of the way in closets and storage drawers that perhaps slip underneath the bed. Look for classy storage ideas that will help mask your belongings and add an element of style to you room as well, e.g., a vintage dressing table or an elegant leather ottoman for the foot of the bed.

2. Your bed and bedding

Beds are personal items of furniture and should suit your and your partner’s personal tastes. You’ll want something that is attractive and deliciously comfortable. You might choose a bed with an ornate iron frame or opt for a more contemporary style that sits low and has a simple wooden box frame. Your sheets should be special, as well. Talk to your interior designer about which fabrics, e.g., silk, satin or cotton, and colors would best suit your bedroom design. It’s easier to feel romantic if your bed always looks inviting.

3. Have fun with lighting

Lighting can impact your mood. You’ll need bright lights while you read or are sorting through clothes, but to create a romantic atmosphere, dimmed or colored lights will calm the senses. You might want to add new light fixtures which can be dimmed when needed or find shades that add color to your existing lamps. You might even opt to have a romantic fireplace installed. If you and your partner love candles, ask your interior designer for ways to create a candle deck or similar feature that you can enjoy using.

4. Personalize

The most important thing about your bedroom space is that it is YOUR bedroom space. Ask your interior designer to help you personalize your interior. Are there photos that are very personal to you both e.g., one of you cuddling together, or a painting that you both love and want displayed? Do you like the look of mirrors and want a few more in the room? Or perhaps you love the smell of fresh flowers and want somewhere to display them? Discuss your preferences with your interior designer in Seattle. They’ll help you incorporate the things you enjoy into your private space.

If you liked this article, tell all your friends about it. They’ll thank you for it. If you have a blog or website, you can link to it or even post it to your own site (don’t forget to mention www.amelydesigns.com as the original source.

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Toxic Overload

Posted by admin in November 16th 2012

A thirty-six-year-old construction worker withered in pain as the ambulance rushed him to the hospital. Andy’s cramps were excruciating and he thought he was going to die. The doctor told him that his gall bladder would need to be surgically removed and there was no time to waste. Three hours later, this otherwise apparently healthy young man lay recuperating in his hospital bed minus a vital organ needed to help the body system run properly, similar to a car with a leaky gas valve. And where do the gallstones go now since Andy had his gallbladder removed?

A fifty-six-year-old widowed secretary and grandmother of six began experiencing severe abdominal pains, throbbing back pain, nausea and vomiting. Abigail was told about a simple intestinal cleanse that might alleviate her condition, and maybe even eradicate her symptoms, but she was skeptical and didn’t believe a cleanse would really work. She continued with her way of eating and hectic lifestyle. Six months later, this wonderful woman had her colon removed; she now expels bodily wastes into a bag attached from her waist that she hides under her smock.

Modern-day diets are clogging our pipes and suffocating vital organs that are needed to run our bodies mechanisms efficiently. But there is something we can do. Cleanse the body of these toxic overloads. “Every tissue is fed by the blood, which is supplied by the bowel. When the bowel is dirty, the blood is dirty, and so on to the organs and tissues.” Dr. Benard Jensen

Our intestines are like a sewage system, because they too need periodic maintenance to keep running properly and effectively. When the toilet becomes clogged and you flush it, what happens? It overflows all over the floor. Either the toilet itself is clogged, or maybe it is the sewer line a thousand feet from your toilet. You try fixing the problem by using a plunger, but the toilet still overflows, because you are not attacking the source of the problem. Now you have to call rotor rooter to unplug the sewage line where it is clogged. In the same way with our intestinal tract, if it is clogged we need to unplug the intestinal pipes, so that the toxins can escape. Rotor rooter can’t do this for us; we need to cleanse our bodies by flushing out the old waste and deposit buildup. By fine-tuning the entire intestinal tract by cleansing, we are attacking the source of numerous health problems, and eventually many disease systems that cause numerous health problems.

How will you know if you have clogged intestines? Do you have, aching joints, high mucus levels, nagging backaches, allergies, obesity, boils on the face and back, persistent headaches, irritable bowl syndrome, pains in the gut, pot belly, sluggishness? Do you catch the common cold or flu easily, and do you feel weak and rundown? All of these are symptoms of toxic overload. The funny thing is, these symptoms don’t show up at the place it is overloaded, but at the weakest part of the body.

When I was a teenager every morning before school I ate sugary-boxed cereals for breakfast and waited at the bus stop drinking Pepsi. Before school I bought candy and chips to keep me satisfied before buying donuts for lunch. After school I ate toasted pop-tarts, and another Pepsi. My taste buds liked the sweet sugary sensation because I was addicted to sugar and caffeine.

Candies, cakes and cookies filled our cupboards and kitchen counters; we even had a drawer in the kitchen called the junk drawer that was always filled with processed snacks for the taking. Sound familiar? When I was young, eating this way did not phase me, I was a top runner in track, arm wrestling champion for the girl’s middleweight, and won several presidential awards for my athletic ability.

But soon this all changed. I got married and had three children, and started eating a little bit better, only because my husband was more health conscience than I. About eight years later, my athletic and muscle-toned body began taking on a new shape and feel. I didn’t like the way I felt. At thirty years old, I had persistent nagging lower back pain; I could barely sit down or get up without looking like the hunchback of Notre Dame. For two years I carried around a consistent throbbing in my lower back. I was fearful for my health because the doctors, or I did not know what the problem was.

I had huge pimples on my shoulders even though I scrubbed them vigorously with a loufa pad every day. I wasn’t fat, but I began exhibiting a potbelly, and days several days would go by without a bowl movement. My back, obviously being the weakest part of my body was severely getting worse. I went to the doctor, and was told, I was healthy as an ox, and nothing was wrong. He told me to do several exercises that would help lessen the pain in my back. He also informed me that lower back pain runs in 70% percent of the population at sometime in their lives, and is something most people just learn to live with. This wasn’t good news.

I tried the exercises, and it helped for a little while, but soon the throbbing came back. With two babies and a toddler, I certainly couldn’t lay on the floor all day doing exercises. At this point, besides always being tired, I became frustrated, edgy and nervous, but I was still determined to find the cause. I eliminated all processed foods from my diet, and bought a juicer and drank fresh-juiced vegetables and fruits daily, my three boys, and husband were enjoying the variety of fresh fruit juices and they were getting healthy as well.

I bought diet and herb books, and I even grew my own herbs and greens. Sprout sandwiches became the normal lunch in my home. My diet consisted of half raw foods and half cooked foods. Still, I had the lower back pains, not as bad, but I still couldn’t sit down like a refined lady supposed to sit down, I had to crouch my whole body into a semi-roll before sitting and I needed pillows under me for the persistent and aggravating hemorrhoids I got from being constipated, and another pillow behind me for back support. This went on for over two years, yet the doctor told me I was healthy.

“Every tissue is fed by the blood, which is supplied by the bowel. When the bowel is dirty, the blood is dirty, and so on to the organs and tissues.” Dr. Benard Jensen

When I was almost thirty-four-years old, a miracle cure was brought to the attention of a Pastor friend of mine who now writes, publishes, and distributes the book, “Cleansing or Surgery” The naturopathic doctor said my symptoms were so closely related to the effects of toxic overload that he was sure the cleanse would indeed work. Promise and hope came back into my spirits. My husband even decided to take the intestinal tract cleanse with me. The great part about the intestinal cleanse is we could still eat the same foods we had been eating before!

We took the three month intestinal cleanse, and my backache, constipation, potbelly, pimples, hemorrhoids, groggy and tired feeling vanished, just like that! Since then, I have done my own extensive research into why, when I changed my eating habits and eliminating processed foods, and eating half of my food intake raw, I was still showing and feeling the toxic overload symptoms. Simply because I wasn’t going to the source of the problem, but rather covering up the root of the source and health problems, which was a clogged and caked up intestinal tract.

When the intestines are caked with hardened fecal matter, nutrients and wastes cannot be transferred efficiently. The nutrients in the foods I was eating were not absorbing into my blood stream properly because of my clogged up intestinal tract. Now, after six years, and doing much research, I find how all of this makes so much sense.

The intestinal cleanse is effective at relieving these afflictions: Constipation, chronic fatigue, asthma, flues and colds, allergies, backache, respiratory disorders, digestive problems, such as gas, indigestion, and abdominal pain; prostrate troubles, headaches, and skin disruptions, colitis, and much more.

Every system in the body will function better once the intestines are cleaned
Intestinal Cleanse Ingredients:

You may contact me for any questions you may have associated with doing the intestinal cleanse. Angie@heavenministries.com

1) Premium quality whole psyllium husks- these husks provide fiber and lubrication for the bowels. When taken with liquid, they expand into a gelatinous mass, scrubbing the intestinal wall, by gathering up old fecal matter and caked on waste deposits. You can buy this at your local health food store; do not buy the tablet form or powdered form, they do not work. Get only the whole psyllium husks that you mix with water. The tablets and powder are already broke down and processed, therefore will not scrub the walls of the intestines like the whole husks do.

2) Blackstrap molasses- Blackstrap molasses is a rich source of minerals and vitamins. It is a bowel regulator and helps prevent constipation and colitis. Blackstrap molasses doesn’t digest entirely in the stomach like most other sugars. It only partially digests in the stomach, than goes into the intestinal tract and is consumed in the intestines. Because of this, nutrients are available in the intestinal tract where they are needed to help assist in the cleansing process. Molasses helps to regulate the bowls, and is an essential part of the intestinal program.
Whole Psyllium Husks and Blackstrap molasses are the only two ingredients needed for the intestinal cleanse. You may need to call your health food store ahead of time to make sure they have the whole husked form in supply.

Doing the Cleanse:

First week, take four times per day before meals.

1 level tsp. whole psyllium husks

1 tsp. blackstrap molasses

Dissolve in 8 to 10 ounces warm water

Drink immediately

Drink another 8 to 10 ounces water

Advance to full dosage, four times per day before meals.

1 level tbs. whole psyllium husks

1 tsp. blackstrap molasses

Dissolve in 8 to 10 ounces warm water

Drink immediately

Drink another 8 to 10 ounces water

Do this cleanse for a full three months for a complete digestive tract cleansing. After the three month period is over, you may discontinue taking the psyllium husks.

The most important thing we can do for ourselves is to keep an open mind to the cleansing possibilities regarding our health. After all, If I had not had the knowledge of this cleanse, or even worse, was skeptical of its properties, I could have very well ended up in my later years with a bag attached to my waist or without a gall bladder. Yet, here I am enjoying life to its fullest, completely healthy and grateful to the talented and open-minded people who have discovered ways to clean up our bodies without the use of conventional medicines, drugs and surgery.

“It is the bowel that invariably has to be cared for first before any effective healing can take place, ” Dr. Benard Jensen.

Try the intestinal cleanse and see the results for yourself, it is unbelievable the end result. Best wishes to you and your health, as you experience the natural properties of cleansing without surgery. Happy cleansing!
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Why Do People Fear Sex?

Posted by admin in November 5th 2012

The recent events with former NY Governor Eliot Spitzer, who resigned after it became known he had hired a prostitute, represents a common occurrence. People generally seem to have an obsession with stories of sexual scandal and tragedy. Even relatively innocuous acts, such as hiring an expensive hooker, get turned into huge scandals by a general public that likes to indulge in feelings of horror and disgust at sexual acts.

I have no problem with the downfall of hypocrites like Eliot Spitzer, Ted Haggard, and Jim Bakker. But the stories of those hypocritical men’s downfalls would not have gained so much intensity without people’s obsession with stories about sexual scandal—an obsession which apparently comes from people’s fear and hatred of sex.

Throughout history, most societies have developed a predominant fear and hatred of sex. They make sexuality into a taboo, including sexual acts such as masturbation, nudity, prostitution, homosexuality, and almost any other sexual act not happening between married people for the purpose of procreation.

But why do the people in our society tend to have such negative feelings towards sexuality? Why do so many cultures throughout the globe fear and hate sex?

The commonness of erotophobia (the fear of sexuality) seems counter-intuitive because humans have such a natural desire for sex. Thanks to evolution, humans naturally find sex pleasurable. Sex is fun, pleasurable, and stress-relieving.

So why all the fear and hatred? Let me posit a few possible explanations.

Political Power – Throughout most of human civilization, small groups of men have an obvious economic incentive to dominate other people. Simply put, exploitation is profitable. The political establishment in most societies may have found it difficult to dominate free-spirited people who joyfully engage in natural, powerful pleasures such as sex and playfulness. In a manner of speaking, the powerfulness of sex competed with the power of those who wished to control society. That also may explain why so many religious organizations originally incorporated erotophobia into their dogma.

Psychological Projection – Projection may also help explain why many people get so worked up over consenting adults having sex. Many people, especially those with perversions, may think of their own sexual desires as harmful or shameful. As a result, they will often suppress the desires, deny the desires, and then project the desires onto others. This could also be described as a method of taking suppressed feelings of self-disgust and releasing them into hatred and disgust for others. For example, consider the correlation between homophobia and homosexuality–famously exemplified by Ted Haggard who publicly condemned homosexuality while secretly having it. Also, it stands to reason that projection would have a mutually causal relationship with erotophobia. In other words, when social norms make people feel ashamed and disgusted by their own sexual emotions, then those people may transfer their feelings of disgust towards other people’s sexuality, which in turn will lead to more erotophobia and create a vicious cycle.

Insecurity and Patriarchy – The historical pervasiveness of patriarchy may have also contributed to the taboo of sex. In their attempts to dominate women, men probably feared the sexual power that women had. Men have also behaved in a notoriously insecure way, and their insecurity can become amplified when rejected by women. Some powerful men’s insecurity over their own sexuality may have led to antipathy towards their own sexuality which may have led to antipathy towards sexuality in general.

Fear of the Dangers – Erotophobia may come from a fear of the dangers of sexuality. For one, people may fear becoming the victim of sexual crime, or of just being used or objectified by someone else. Additionally, people may fear the personal dangers of indulging in sex, such as STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and addiction. Practicing safe sex has mostly made the issues of STDs and unwanted pregnancies moot. (Ironically, erotophobia makes it more difficult to promote the use of safer sex.) Fear of addiction may help explain why people still fear sexuality. This fear perhaps makes the most sense. People can become addicted by indulging too much in any pleasurable activity, especially intense activities conducive to overindulgence such as sex, gambling, unhealthy eating, playing video games and so on and so forth. (It seems misguided to me to fear the activity out of fear of addiction. It is immoderation that leads to addiction, not the pleasurable activity. And it is immoderation we need to fear, not pleasure.) So maybe a misguided fear of pleasure, stemming from a reasonable fear of addiction, helps cause erotophobia.

Whatever the reason, our society fears and hates sexuality. Ironically, erotophobia probably exacerbates any perceived problem with sexuality.

Even with so much erotophobia, sex still happens and is very likable, but we can only imagine how much more sex could offer in a world that didn’t treat it like such a horrible evil.

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